Just a Girl

Monday, September 26, 2011

How has it been so long?!

In my mind, I blog all the time! But I guess my mind doesn't translate to the electronic world the way I might wish...

So blogging topics I've been thinking about lately...


  1. freezing basil and parsley from my garden

  2. organization adventures

  3. cooking!! Jerry has been sick all weekend and I had to cook. Imagine my surprise to remember how much I love to cook!! Of course since I'm more of hot/cold kinda chick, rather than a smooth and steady one... that could account for why sometimes I LOVE it and other times... can't we just order pizza?

  4. the adventures of two year olds - specifically the sleeping, potty training and learning to pick up toys adventures these days
So we'll see... maybe I won't be so hot/cold about this blogging thing. Smooth and steady sounds so much more exciting! Stay tuned...

Thursday, July 15, 2010

Friday, July 2, 2010

Happy Happy 1/2 Birthday Sweet Girls!

18 months ago today our sweet girls came into the world!

Mary Danz was a natural, amazing delivery that I'd do all over again! MDC weighed in at a healthy 5lbs 12 oz.

Sarah Belle, after witnessing her sister's adventure said NO thanks... She came into the world thirty minutes after her sister and via c-section... Weighing an equally healthy 5 lbs and 7 oz.


We worked so hard to make it "to term." In part because we wanted healthy babies, but even more so because we didn't want to harness our widgets with a Christmas or New Years birthday for the rest of their lives. And we made it to January 2nd!!


It's still pretty close to the holidays so we've decided we will celebrate their 1/2 birthdays! Last year we amended our 4th of July pool party to include the girls' "first annual 1/2 birthday party!" This year we're opting for a quieter celebration... but a celebration nonetheless.

Happy 1/2 birthday little ones!

Save the Date!! Our Annual 4th of July Pool Party, that's never on the 4th

Jerry and I bought our house June 30, 2005 and just a few days later we had our first "Annual 4th of July Pool Party, that's never on the 4th." Several folks commented about the fact that boxes were everywhere and we weren't even close to moved in yet. Sure it was true! But come on... it was the 4th of July and we had our first pool!!! Boxes, shmoxes it was time to swim!!



Every year since we have continued our tradition of our Annual 4th of July Pool Party, that's never on the 4th." We invite all of our friends and family - everyone that makes our life better, makes us smile and remember why we love Tulsa! Some people throw Christmas parties... we like a good 4th of July pool party... that's not on the 4th.



Then 18 months ago we got another reason to celebrate! Sarah Belle and Mary Danz celebrate their 1/2 birthday every year on July 2nd... close enough that we have to merge the celebrations together!



I've been looking forward to this year's party for a number of reasons but mostly because we were looking forward to pulling out all the stops to also celebrate my 40th birthday!!! I LOVE my birthday - selfish, narsistic, I know but nonetheless... I love it!



But alas... we spent this 4th of July weekend in our nation's capital. Who can complain about celebrating our independence just steps from the Washington Monument, Lincoln Memorial and so many other symbols of sacrifice and freedom? Not I assure you.



Of course I also can't let my 40th birthday OR our pool party tradition fall victim to geographical challenges. So mark your calendars folks, consider this your Save the Date... this year September 4th we'll celebrate our annual 4th of July pool party, that's not on the 4th of July." Of course we should probably throw in the girls 18th month birthday - wait... they'll be 20 months by then!

European Washing Machine... Blessing or Curse?

Moving from a small(ish) town to the big city certainly comes with some adjustments. Traffic... lots more cars, even at 6am the highways are full. More cars leads to parking challenges. Strangers take a little more effort to coax a smile out of. On the flip side there are so many more options... restaurants, concerts, parks, heck even the grocery stores are amazing.

Some things are not as obvious... homes in the big city are much more expensive which means you end up much less space. Old habits of buying in bulk at Sam's... ugh! Schlepping all your purchases up two flights of stairs, then three floors (on the elevator thank goodness!) and down the hall... only to discover you have not the pantry nor fridge space to accommodate all your finds!

It's a different life. Our current adjustment is to our fancy, smancy laundry machine. It's European style which means it does both the washing and the drying all in one drum. No effort required to move your clothes from the washer to the dryer! And it's a great space saver!!

Of course... the capacity is nine pounds of dry clothes and the total time required to do a load... three hours, thirty minutes.

There is a very nice laundry room in our building and we used it willingly/aggressively in the beginning. Until I realized we were spending $30-40 a week just washing clothes. When in Rome right... we are learning to adapt to our (free) all in one, fancy smancy European style washer/dryer.

I'm excited about some of the benefits... learning to keep our clothes clean so they'll last longer between washings. Hanging clothes to dry versus making them crispy critters with a fire hot dryer. Definitely a solid step towards the "less is more" way of life.


This laundry basket is currently holding four loads of laundry... please check on me 10.5 hours from now to make sure I've survived!

What steps do you take to lessen the burden of laundry?

Saturday, June 19, 2010

Girls and their Doggies

Long before there was Sarah Belle and Mary Danz there was Grace and Maggie. :)

Jerry & Cathey Capozziello's first little girls. Then along came "the girls." The new girls love the first girls... however we're not always sure the first girls share the same level of eager enthusiasm. :) But Mary Danz and Sarah Belle couldn't be happier with their older, wiser first ladies.

After all, who wouldn't love a doggie that let you crawl all over them, use their belly as a pillow while you drink your sippy, sit patiently while you investigate every nook and cranny?



But alas our fabulous DC apartment is too teeny tiny for 70lbs x 2 of four legged love. So while we embrace the East Coast, our first girls are manning the fort at home. Man we all miss our Grace and Maggie. (Even I miss them much more than I'd expected!)

Enter a new friend... Hunner. He's a seven lb wiener dog, all of five inches off the ground. While he's not a Capozziello, he is our guest for the summer. What a deal! Seven pounds of built in entertainment!!!




Both Sarah Belle and Mary Danz love "their" Hunner. He plays chase with them; he gleefully responds to mealtime spillage. He cheerfully greets them every time they track him down.

Now to be honest, Mary Danz loves him much more than Sarah Belle. SBC gets a little nervous when he barks and hesitates to cross his path. She's always been a little suspicious of "rat sized" canines. (She must get that from her daddy!) But Mary Danz... she's in heaven and baby - she's in charge!

He's so little that if he gets under the couch, or the bed, or really anywhere... forget getting him out without some major furniture adjusting. So we have a great system of leaving a little six foot lead on him most of the time.

Enter part two of this heaven on earth for Mary Danz. Not only does she have a lil buddy that she loves with all of her 17 mo old heart, but he comes with a handle and she can pull him across the wood floors where ever she wants! Occasionally he gets stuck on the wrong side of a chair leg or something, but she perseveres and just couldn't be happier. She would pull him around everywhere she went, all the day long, if it were up to her.

Lucky for Hunner... his resident adults respect that the love affair may actually be more similar to a stalking/abusive relationship that he just can't seem to figure his way out of. Sure he loves the attention. Sure he loves the family of his stalker. But the stalker... when he sees her coming he runs as fast as those two inch lil legs will take him. So his resident adults provide him some respite here and there and for that we know he is thankful.

He barks at his own shadow and we still have some housekeeping manners to refine, but when it comes to love... true love... Mary Danz is smitten!

I wonder if Grace and Maggie know she's cheating on them?